2.07.2012

So Much Goodness

I am truly humbled.
My list of thank you's to write since Pete's birth is a gazillion pages long.  We have been helped by so many friends and family members that my heart is about to explode with gratitude.
It's been one month since Pete made his appearance, and not a day has gone by where someone hasn't called, made a meal, cleaned my bathrooms, brought the kids home form school, watched the kids, or sent a gift to us.  Seriously.  In this one month we've experienced bringing home a newborn, the family flu, and my birthday.  With all of that, our family and friends have outdone themselves in generosity.

My friend Janel made this beautiful, warm car seat cover for Pete.  I was so touched when she gave it to me!


Kim made this fleece tie blanket for Pete.  Each of my children except for Thomas, have their own tie blankets that they sleep with every night!  I love that she made this beautiful one for him.  She has also been so gracious in watching my children for me.  Countless times she has brought Thomas and Annie home from school so that I wouldn' t have to get out and pick them up, thus giving me more of a chance for a long nap!


For my birthday my friend Kimberly crochet this purse for me!  The girls that I work out with met at Scooters for coffee to celebrate my birthday, along with Lisa and Mary who also have January birthdays!  We also got cupcakes and mini cheesecakes to start off our day! 

The food that we have been given since Pete's birth is ridiculous!!  Dinner delivered to my door three days a week!!   I have such a wonderful group of friends who all have signed up to make our family dinner on Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays for weeks.  The best gift EVER I tell you.  My friends have been so generous with making these wonderfully filling meals for our family.  As a small way of thanks, we always pray for the family who made us the meal as we say grace.

Our community of friends that we have surrounded ourselves with is so supportive of having children.  All of our friends know the demands and stresses of having children and are so good at doing what they can to help, not because TJ and I can't handle our children, but because they all know very well what it is like to bring home new babies and understand what is helpful. 
    

 

 

 

My friend Janel even brought me over my own boxed lunch one morning.  I can't tell you how special I felt that day.  It was all packaged up so beautifully.  There was chicken salad sandwich, soup, crackers, muffins, cuties, and yogurt with fruit.  It was darling, and delicious!!  She even had two Lunchables for George and Evie to eat.  They thought she was the best, and rightly so...I mean getting a Lunchables for lunch...way cool!


 

 

What I have been craving the most is breads and desserts.  My friend Staci brought us a blueberry bread and I devoured the entire thing!  It was so yummy and satisfying.  I hid it from the kids so I could eat it all. 

When Pete was one week old, Laura and Jarod came for the weekend.  Laura and the boys stayed a few extra days to help out.  She was such a big help and it was nice to have her company.  She did my laundry, picked the kids up from school, had made meals at home and froze them for us.
She also bought us the BEST cinnamon rolls in the world from a local bakery.  For some reason, these rolls are the most scrumptious right after having a baby!  I look forward to eating these hen I get to the end of my pregnancy.  Thank you Laura for being here and for all your help!



The week we had the flu, TJ's mom came over at night to take him to the ER.  She brought us soup, Gatorade and made us dinners.  She has such a giving heart, her gift is taking care of people.  She does this so well.  No matter what, she will be here and help us out, especially when we are sick.  I have learned so much about caring for others from her.  Thank you Tonja.
It truly is a blessing to live in the same town as your parents.  I can call my mom any time and ask for her help.  She always picks the kids up from school one day a week, and even came and cleaned my bathrooms for me!  She and my dad even came to watch the kids one evening so TJ and I could go out with friends since we hadn't done much together since having the baby.  We stayed out until 1 am and my mom was happy to stay at our house so we could have a fun night. We are so grateful for the help that we get from our parents.

Thank you again to each of you who have prepared meals, watched our children, sent cards and gifts and prayed for us.  You all are very dear to our hearts. 

2.06.2012

The Day You Were Baptized

-The Morning-
The day before your baptism we were hit with a huge snow storm that dumped lots of heavy white snow all over us! 





-The Baptismal Gown-
This gown has been worn for baptisms in our family since 1923.  My grandma Becky was baptized in in, my dad and his two sisters wore it, my two sisters and I wore it, and finally your brothers and sisters and cousins have now been baptized wearing it as well.  It's a beautiful piece of family history.


You also wore these beautiful hand crochet booties that my friend Lisa made for you.

-The Ceremony-
I love that your brothers and sisters were right there at the baptismal font watching Monsignor baptize you.  I love that we chose our good friends Craig and Kim Vacek to be your godparents.  We know they will pray for you every day.  We couldn't ask for anything better for you.  They will love you and you will always have a special bond with them.






























-The Party-
We decided to go down to the Marion room for our celebration afterwards.  With all the snow, we knew it may be difficult for everyone to drive in our neighborhood. 
I had made boxed lunches for everyone with a chicken salad sandwich or turkey sandwich, bag of chips, carrots, fruit slush and chocolate crosses.  We had sugar cookies for dessert!


















A truly glorious day.  The sparking white snow that covered the trees and ground was a beautiful reminder of what your little soul must look like now after being baptized.  Bright, white, and sparkling. 

*Thank you Janel for taking all the beautiful pictures!

2.01.2012

A Gift of Love

Love is decorating our home these days.  Red and pink hearts can be seen every direction you look.  I like to add splashes of these fun loving colors to our house before we come to the somber season of Lent. 


I talked to a good friend on the phone last night.  We haven't talked for a very long time, as our lives don't cross paths too often these days, making it harder to keep in touch.  But we did last night and it was so good to hear from her and about her family.  She said something last night that had me thinking ever since.  She said that she wished she was more kind and loving like me.  First of all, it was a wonderful compliment.  Second of all, really?  Am I really a kind and loving person, or just to friends or when others are watching?  I know for a fact that I am more patient when there are other people in our home.  Why can't I always show that calm, understanding, patient side of me when I'm just with my children, say especially at bedtime, or when I'm exhausted after lunch and ready for a nap?


I feel like lately I've be a more impatient, yelling, and UNkind mother. I lose my patience and snap at my children. What made her remember me as being so kind and loving? I must have shown those virtues or she wouldn't remember me being that way, right?

 
I want to give my best to the people that matter the most. There are six of them. TJ, Thomas, Annie, George, Evelyn and Pete. Why do I save my patience, tenderness, love for others and let my family get the worst of me. I don't want them to remember me losing it, ranting and raving about who splashed water out of the tub again, or who peed all over the toilet....again.
Patience. Kindness. Love.
The gifts I want to give to my family this St. Valentines Day.